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Dear Friend,

My name is Jim Hall MS, Masters in Counseling/Psychology, Love Addiction Specialist, and founder of this site.


Please allow me to answer two questions that I believe you will want to know.

Who is Jim Hall (founder of this site, specialist, recovery coach) -- and how could he and this site help you to heal and overcome love addiction so you can create healthy, happy relationships you deserve?


I won't go into to details since that can fill up a whole book- but here are 4 important qualifications I have which I believe will give you the confidence and trust that I could provide the help you need:


  1. I've been a love addict for many years--- I know what it's like to experience chaotic & toxic love.

  2. I've achieved powerful recovery & healing- I know what it takes (tools, solutions) to help you do the same.

  3. In my commitment to help you:  I became a student of psychology and love addiction, and real love relationships- I studied & read countless books on addictive relationships- many hours in research- attended many professional lectures-  I will help you find solutions.

  4. In combination with my personal recovery experience- I've been trained as a therapist with a Masters Degree in Counseling & Psychology- this further allowed me to gain even more key insight in the psychology of healing, love, & relationships- to help you.



Why I created this site to help You-- It's Personal! 

For years I had NO IDEA how to be in healthy love relationships- or attract healthy partners.

In fact, I thought I was the committed, giving, supportive partner who knew how to love.


I repeatedly attracted partners who were as unhealthy as I was. I was attracted to drama, dysfunction, and emotionally fearful & unavailable partners. I lived through one frustrating & painful relationship after another & it was wearing on me.


I read self-help books, relationship books, went to a counselor (many times)- anything to figure it all out.

And nothing seemed to work.


The beginning of the end of my Love Addiction.


My turning point in my life came after another painful end to a dysfunctional- addictive relationship-I finally hit "bottom". You might ask: What is "bottom"? "Bottom" for me was consuming obsession, confusion, emotional pain, shock, & numbness- I lost myself!


The wall of denial in my life, the denial I used all my life- finally crumbled- breaking all at once- soon after this particular relationship ended.


My family and friends COULD NOT UNDERSTAND what I was going through- why I was in such misery- over a relationship that was miserable? I'll tell you what- I couldn't understand it either.

I felt alone, lost, and "crazy."


During this time of my life- I learned about a Rehabilitation Center for Love Addiction - This treatment center was one of most well respected- and worldly renowned of its kind.


However, there was a problem - a BIG one:

This center was out of State- required 35 days of intensive treatment- and cost way to much for me to afford. The cost was well over $35,000-- YES! --$35,000. I couldn't believe it!

The only place that may help me at the time, and only the rich could afford it! No one said life is fair, did they?


But I was desperate. I was in pain.


At this point, I didn't care what it took or how much money I would lose- I needed and wanted change. So I scrambled and borrowed the money (financed)- called the treatment center- and flew off into the blue skies- I was angry, obsessed, and embarrassed this was happening to me over a relationship.


Despite the deep internal shame I felt at the time, entering treatment to finally deal with the real core issues around this love addiction-- was the beginning of the end of my toxic patterns of loving.

Going to this rehab center was the starting point of my journey that changed my life- and is what drives me today- to want to help you. Thankfully as my feelings of internal shame and hopelessness dissipated, I was more committed than ever.


My growth, insight, and recovery advanced after getting out of treatment.


Because of my incredibly successful recovery experience,  I wanted to learn more- I read, researched, and studied everything I could about love addiction & relationships- the causes, patterns, and treatment methods that further help people break free.


I continued in recovery - and I developed the tools and strategies that further enhanced positive changes in my life.


I went to school to get a Masters in Counseling and Psychology that also significantly enhanced my expertise to help you get out of the abyss of love addiction.


What brought me to want to help you find freedom from love addiction?

In my gut, I knew there were many people out in our world dealing with this baffling problem (true). Moreover, I realized- I was very fortunate to have the opportunity to go to this treatment center where I discovered how to love myself and love others- giving me a life of abundance.


I also realized 99% of the population could never get this kind of treatment- and most therapists cannot provide the critical insight this kind of treatment center provides- and there is no other treatment center's like this that a majority of people can afford. I knew I could help others, and I wanted to.


I made a commitment to you and others like you.


My genuine and sincere passion today is about helping you discover--  the knowledge,  insight, and tools that lead to my breakthrough out of love addiction-- something at the time I never thought I would have achieved in my recovery.

Today I help love addicts realize hope, freedom, and healthy love is absolutely possible... and without needing a costly treatment center. 


There are many who suffer from love addiction. Many suffer quietly. Some- not as intense as I did; and others, simililary (hitting a "bottom").  But never the less, millions are living out relationships (and within themselves) in toxic love patterns, in silent despair.


What's the possible solution for how to overcome your love addiction?

I believe the solution for you at this moment is to first understand that you are NOT crazy; that you have nothing to be ashamed about. You are not alone.


And second, to learn the tools and methods and the crucial insights on how to break love addiction, which worked for me-- and can also make the difference for you. I now know this is the case- since I start this specialty working with recovering love addicts nearly ten years ago.


You know what? ... You can break free. You can gain the skills to realize healthy-fulfilling love, intimacy, self-love, and esteem.


So my friend, I strongly encourage you to not let any more time be wasted in this very insidious addiction to love- it is real- it sucks, bad- but with the right guidance, tools, and methods,--you can recover.

If you're ready to get answers to break out of the pain of addictive love -- that's what this site is about-- I am here for you.


Take advantage of this moment & begin a path away from the pain and confusion, instead moving towards creating a life of relational love & self-love, that you DO deserve.

Feel free to browse my articles, recovery services, and learn about my books, which could be a great place to start. Now is the best time to get started. If you have any questions my contact info. is below- or contact.


Jim Hall MS, Love Addiction Expert
I'm committed to helping you- Break Free. You can do it.




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Surviving Withdrawal: The BreakUp Workbook for Love Addicts 
If you're facing a breakup and the pain of love withdrawal, this is the workbook for you!
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The Love Addict in Love Addiction
All about love-relationship addiction, Love Addict, Love Avoidant, and more.
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Gateway to Recovery: The Beginners Guide to Breaking Free from Love Addiction
Learn the strategies needed to start a breakthrough-successful path to recovering
- click here to order Gateway to Recovery: The Beginners Recovery Guide for Love Addicts 


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