1) Sexual activities/fantasies used to soothe/comfort self through sexual obsession; porn/masturbation/ Voyeurism/etc.
2) Compulsive sexual cycle used to escape unpleasant feelings
3) Focus/obsession on sexual pleasure w/o significant relationship- bonding/closeness not important
4) Compulsive cycle manifested around ritualized sexual behavior/fantasies OR sexual anorexia?avoidance or excessive control over sexual behavior
5) Shame/despair?intensified once the sexual cycle of acting out is complete ("See, I really am a bad, unworthy person")
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1) Relationship/Romance fantasies used to soothe/comfort self through obsession of one "magical" person; who mate ?could' be, or ?made up' to be
2) Compulsive relationship cycle used to escape unpleasant feelings
3) Focus/obsession is on one significant relationship/person- ultimate bonding important; prone to stay in toxic relationship
4) Compulsive cycle manifested around seeking and/or keeping one relationship; avoiding abandonment/rejection, fantasy of person (or anorexia-avoidance of relationship)
5) Shame/despair?intensified when rejected/abandoned/relationship loss ("See, I really am a bad, unworthy person")
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